8 mistakes I made while trying to lose weight

Guest Blogger:  Doug Sampson

I went on my first diet around five years ago. Over the past four and a half years my weight went up and down as I tried every diet and exercise program under the sun. Nothing seemed to work for me. Until six months ago I enrolled in a weight workshop which taught me that I need to change the way I look at food. It was then that I realized that I had made many mistakes in my quest to lose weight.

In this article I’m going to share with you eight mistakes I made on my quest to lose weight. I hope by sharing my experiences with others throughout the world via the internet I might be able to help people avoid the mistakes I made. So, here are the eight mistakes I made while trying to lose weight.

1. I started to skip breakfast
Most people trying to lose weight believe simply eating less and skipping meals helps shed that fat. And breakfast is a real easy meal to skip. This is one of the biggest mistakes you can make when on a weight loss diet. If you leave the house in the morning on an empty stomach you’re much more tempted to eat more at morning tea and lunch times. And, calories you eat at breakfast time are easily burnt throughout the day.

2. I would eat one day and not the next
I would literally eat about 2000+ calories one day, feel guilty, and end up eating about 700 calories the following day. If you “starve” yourself throughout the day you’re much more likely to eat more in the evenings, which is not going to help you lose weight. You should consume most of your calories in the morning.

3. I bought diet food
When I went shopping I always looked for the foods marked diet, low-fat, healthy etc. This is a good practice to get into, but I was buying these foods for the wrong reason. I bought these foods because in my mind it meant I could more. I would totally disregard portion size. If you eat diet foods in large portions you’re not doing yourself any favors.

4. I thought I’d always be fat
This is mindset that you must break if you want to lose some serious weight. Sometimes it feels like you’re doing the right things and not making any progress, this is totally natural. You need to focus on being happy and healthy and achieving your goals. Try not to get caught up in “the big picture”.

5. I started eating salads as main meals
Eating salad is a good way of keeping your calorie intake down right? Yes, meal of salad has much less calories that a pizza but does it have the satisfaction? When you eat you mind needs to get some satisfaction from what you have just eaten. I found that when I ate salads for meals a few hours later I was back I the cupboard looking for more food. I learnt that I was better off eating a balanced meal with slightly more calories than simply eating a salad and snacking afterwards.

6. I started my new diets on Mondays
When I found a new diet that I decided I was going to try I always started it on a Monday. This meant I would eat all weekend like I was never going to eat again. Doing this I was just setting myself up for failure.

7. I was to embarrassed to go to the gym
Taking the plunge and joining a gym was one of the hardest things I ever did. I was always worried that people in the gym would be staring at me and talking about me. I really thought I was too fat to join. My advice is to join a gym! You’ll be glad you did. I look forward to going to the gym now.

8. I set my goals to high
Setting long term goals is great, but these goals always seem to far off. You need to set smaller, more reachable goals that you can regularly meet to keep your motivation high. Set yourself weekly, monthly and three monthly goals. Once you meet one short term goal set a new one for next week.

So there you have it, those are the mistakes I made. I now look at weight loss from a totally different perspective and it has paid off. I now help others with weight loss and keeping healthy.

Ancient Chinese Secret to Losing Weight

Chinese Secret Weight LossLosing Weight by following the clues…

After recently overhearing a conversation a between two ladies at a local restaurant who were having a conversation about individuals they encounter on a daily basis (one of them obviously worked in a hospital environment, she had scrubs on) who are seeking various treatments at the hospital.  One of the women stated that in all the years she had worked at the hospital, she had yet to see one (yes, ONE) obese oriental lady! So this got me thinking……

It’s not all true, you can’t believe EVERYTHING you hear…there are several issues people of all shapes, sizes, and cultures face and the biggest one is being overweight.

Although the majority of women you see from China are not overweight or obese, but skinnier and less “chunky” you know for a fact that there are numerous women from the orient who know the underlying secret to being thin…..what is that secret you ask?  This brings the idea of green tea or oolong tea to mind.

The Secret Ingredient for Losing Weight…

What is oolong tea you ask?  It’s a form of green tea that partially fermented.  It is also related to black tea…  Green tea isn’t fermented at all, while black tea is fully fermented.  Recent studies in Japan showed that this type of chinese tea called the oolong tea together with healthy eating and exercise regimen showed that people who regularly consumed this tea experienced over significantly increased calorie-burning results of those who drank the same amount of authentic Japanese green tea. Drinking this oolong tea 15 minutes before eating starchy foods also helped slow the rise in insulin that normally comes after eating food that contained a lot of carbohydrates. Drinking this tea may prevent you from gaining weight, in fact it may help you lose weight.

Like other teas as well, Japan’s Shiga University of Medical Science found that drinking Wu-Long tea also daily dramatically clears up skin eczema within just one month, and helps reduce free radicals, and lower the risk of infections such as the common cold.  It’s been proven that oolong tea helps sharpen thinking skills and will improve mental alertness, it prevents cancer, osteoporosis, tooth decay and heart disease.

There is a book “Bencao Shiyi” which states that tea will make you live long and stay in good shape.”   By drinking it, there have been numerous generations of ladies who know how to stay thin, have a tremendous amount of energy all doing so while drinking away the pounds and cutting their waistline down.

Drinking tea is a natural way to manage your weight and lose fat.  This can be considered a supplement, which can assist you in achieving success in addition to your daily exercise routine.

 

Abdominal Weight Loss thru Yoga

abdominal weight loss thru yogaYoga for Gut Removal

If you meet somebody who is hinting that they would like to lose some weight, more times than not they either point to or pinch their gut saying “I wanna lose this!” Obviously, abdominal fat loss is a goal for millions of people.

Most people may not be aware that Yoga along with many other exercises can help with trimming down your stomach flab.  There are several ways, that target excess weight in the abdomen and put together with a good diet, those seeking abdominal fat loss shall find success in putting these poses to good use.

Let’s go over them, shall we?

Abdominal Weight Loss: Yoga Poses to Use.

1.  The Abdominal Lift: This is not a pose, per-se but is a specific breathing exercise that involves you exhaling your breath and pulling the diaphragm in while holding the breath out. This exercise is specifically designed for weight loss, spiritual rejuvenation and detoxifying your body.

2.   The Bow Pose: This simple pose involves laying flat on your stomach and taking an ankle in each hand at the same time lifting your head up high..  This pose is commonly recommended for weight loss, the prevention and correction of chronic constipation.

3. The Sun Salutations: These are a few poses you can do to start up or cool off from a yoga practice.  They involve, standing, reaching, squatting and bending.  Sun salutations are a bit different due to the fact that they have spiritual meaning which is included as a result of doing them.  Due to the forward and backward bending motions involved, after performing a few to several rounds on a daily basis for several weeks, you are bound to notice a marked loss of weight in your abdominal area and the added bonus of muscular tone.

We have given you a couple examples above to help as well as these other poses such as the shoulder-stand, peacock, the forward-bending pose, the spinal twist and the wheel pose that also target increase in muscular tone and weight loss in the abdominal regions, however from sticking with the above poses and through daily practice you will find the most benefit.

These poses can help you on your journey to lose that stomach flab and are well known to help clean out your system.  Please enjoy a proper and healthy diet to get the biggest and best benefit from these yoga poses.

Empower yourself with these tips and information to achieve your goal for weight loss. Lose that stomach flab starting today.

Also, check out Small Decision #68 in my Book “Fat is All in your Head: 101 Small Decisions for Amazing Health”

Ear Acupressure Points 4 weight loss – Another Small Decision

“Ear acupressure points for weight loss”

Carol Burnett Ear Tug

Signature Ear Tug by Carol Burnett – source: http://www.tvacres.com/greetings_carol.htm

When I heard that you could reduce your appetite and lose weight by rubbing your ear, I immediately said, “WHAT???”.  Sounds like something that Carol Burnett would do.  (For those of you who never saw her TV show, she used to end her show by tugging on her ear.  A very funny lady… check out some of her comedy skits posted on YouTube.)

If you could rub your ear and reduce your appetite, it would certainly qualify as a “Small Decision for Amazing Health”.  Here is part of the article that I found about Ear Acupressure points for weight loss“…

Auriculotherapy — also known as “ear acupuncture” or “auricular acupuncture” — has been gaining popularity over the past 50 years as a non-invasive but effective natural treatment for physical and mental conditions.

The concept is that the outer portion of the human ear holds a map that links to the rest of the body.  Pressure is used on these various map points to alleviate chronic pain, cure insomnia, help you lose weight, increase your libido, and offer relief from emotional stress.

Can you truly relieve pain just by touching your ear?

The answer was discovered in 1980 …. Read more at the actual article !

Ear Acupressure Chart

Ear Acupressure Chart from http://www.acupuncturebenefits.org/ear-acupuncture-for-weight-loss/

According to the article, Auriculotherapy [the use of Ear Acupressure points] is recognized and approved by both the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA) and the World Health Organization (WHO).  They say that it has proven to be a valid and effective at-home treatment for many illnesses.

Maybe Carol Burnett was onto something there… give a tug on your ear acupressure points for weight loss … and many more benefits.

Try it and see if it works for you!

Either way, let us know what happens by leaving a comment below !

Thanks!
d.Mark “Dave” Wheeler

How Can You Lose Weight? Top 10 No-Calorie Rewards

Many overweight people use food as a reward when they accomplish something and this “carrot [cake] & stick” approach is one reason that many diets fail to produce the desired results.

How Can You Lose Weight …
and still celebrate your successes?

If you are asking that question, you have come to the right webpage.  Listed below are the Top 10 “No-Calorie” rewards that you can use to celebrate anything… from completion of a tough sudoku puzzle to fitting into a smaller size of jeans.

10. Visit a museum or gallery and view Art.  Soak in the beauty and imagine that someone will consider your own body a work of art if you keep to your healthy diet.

9. Close your eyes and meditate.  Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth.  Take deep, slow breathes and relax away any tension in your body.

8. Scream your head off.  Let it out.  (Of course this is best done somewhere private.  Don’t combine this with # 10 … the other patrons won’t really appreciate it.)

7. Pat a friendly dog or get someone to give you a hug (preferably someone you know… strangers seem to frown on spontaneous hugs).

6. Deep Breathing in the Great Outdoors.  This may seem a lot like # 9 but the key is to get outside and enjoy the weather.  Plus, we will give you a bonus “No Calorie Reward” at the end… how is that?

5. Engage in some “mini-exercises”.  These activities, such as climbing a flight of stairs or lifting a slightly heavy weight a number of times, will get your blood pumping and give you energy for the next few hours.

4. Strike a pose.  Do a few yoga positions or just stretch your body.  You will feel better than if you sat all day.

3. Listen / Watch some great music on YouTube.  Even a short 5-10 minutes will give you a boost and if that doesn’t work, try searching for “cute kittens”.  There has got to me a video that will make you smile !

2. Drink some Hot Tea with no sugar or milk.  Remember, these are “No Calorie” rewards and the point is to provide your body with a pleasant sensation that does not add calories to your diet.

1. Drink some very cold water.  Often the temperature alone is more important than how much sugar is in a beverage and your body will thank you for keeping it hydrated.

BONUS “No Calorie Reward”… Eat Celery.  It has been said that eating celery actually burns more calories than it contains.  I’m not sure if I believe that, but I do know that celery actually has a bit of a salty taste which means it can be a great substitute for potato chips.

DOUBLE BONUS “No Calorie Reward”… As they used to say on “The Newlywed Game”, celebrate by “Making Whoopee”.  As a reward, this is probably the best.  (Certainly it is better than celery or water.)  Again, as we mentioned in # 7… it is important to celebrate with the right person (and make sure they are “on board” with the celebration) !

Think those were good ways but you still want more answers to “How Can You Lose Weight?”…

Sign up and download the first 50 pages of the book, “Fat is all in your Head, 101 Small Decisions for Amazing Health” by dMark Wheeler.  It contains some amazing ideas that you will want to implement right away and you can get the first part of the book for free… simply by signing up on this website !

 

How do I lose Weight? Never Give Up

Want to know “How do I lose weight?”

Here is someone who knows the secret.  Check out the video below for one person’s idea for “How do I lose weight?”….

Never, Ever Give Up

How different could your body and your life be if you never gave up on eating right and exercising?  What if you videotaped yourself for 100 days as you worked out and prepared healthy foods.  Do you think that might be an inspiration to those around you?

You don’t have to post your results on YouTube for them to impress other people.  You are a walking, talking billboard for all the decisions you have made in your life.  It is easy to see who enjoys exercise and who has decided that “it is hard”.  It is easy to see who has learned portion control and healthy eating or who just eats whatever happens to be nearby.

Think before putting it in your mouth

I don’t remember hearing about anyone who became overweight by being force-fed high calorie foods.  We all have a choice and control over the foods we eat.  Even little children can influence their parents by learning about what foods are healthy and asking their parents to serve them to the whole family.  What is more important?  Your health or another bag of chips?  What are giving up in your life to have another big dessert?  Are you going to miss your child’s wedding?  Your first grandchild.

Still have questions?

Are you still asking yourself “How do i lose weight?”  If so, you should download the first 50 pages of “Fat is all in your head”.  It is free and if you like the ideas, you can buy the rest of the book on Amazon.com or BarnesandNoble.com or Createspace.com (direct from the publisher).  It is also available in Kindle format.

Your life is worth it.  Take action today.  You will be glad you did.

 

How To Diet using your Mind

The “How To Diet” Question

Everyone wants to know How To Diet.  Across the world, we have developed such bad eating habits that “How to diet” is now a top search term in Google with over 30 million searches per month globally!

The Answer

Everyone knows that the “magic formula” is “Eat Right and Exercise” (ER&E) and almost everyone has some idea of what foods are REALLY good (i.e. healthy) and which foods are “very tastey” (but not something you should eat every day).  Don’t believe me?  Let’s try some examples… What’s healthier… A salad or deep fried chicken with gravy?  That was easy, right?  How about carrot sticks or potato chips?  A piece of fruit or a bowl of ice cream?  Easy, right?

The Hard Part

It may be relatively easy to differentiate between “good foods” and “not so good foods” but there is obviously more to the story.  There is “portion control” and “add-on control”.  Portion control means not eating a whole bushel of carrot sticks or a huge bowl of diced fruit.  Even if it is healthy, it can be overdone.  Add-on Control means being aware (and controlling) the things we “add-on” to healthy foods.  A great example is salad dressing.  There are loads of high calorie, high fat dressings that can triple or quadruple the calories in something that started out as a healthy salad of greens & vegetables.  These “add-ons” can be very sneaky so they must be controlled… but the good news is that your taste buds will adapt over time and you won’t miss the high fat dressings.  That is part of learning How To Diet using your Mind !

Mind Games

As you can read in dMark Wheeler’s book, “Fat is all in your Head”, the real key to learning How To Diet comes when you learn how to use your mind.  There are loads of examples in the book, but think about it this way… each decision you make is either improving your health or making it worse and your body is a total of the decisions you have made over the past week, month or year.  As dMark says, “Change Your Mind – Change Your Body”.

What’s Next?

After you have downloaded the sample of the book (or bought a copy on Amazon) and read about how dMark Wheeler changed his thinking and improved his health, the next step is up to you.  No one can make you healthier except you.  The good news?  ”Fat is all in your Head” comes with 101 Small Decisions you can practice and fold into your life.  Before you know it, your diet will change, your taste buds will change and, most importantly, your body will change.  The Choice is yours !

 

Small Decision # 19 – Defeat Your CheeseHead

Who knows how to lose weight?  Think of it as making ONE small decision, yes just one!!

While this “Small Decision” might not be the most popular in dairy producing states (yes, I mean you Wisconsin and Vermont), it can certainly have an amazing impact on the quality of your personal health as well as the health of your whole family.  Never mind it’s a way for you to lose weight.

Consider giving up cheese for a month.  See how much better you feel (and I’ll bet you won’t miss it after 2 weeks… or at least not as much).

Small Decision # 19
Defeat Your CheeseHead

No, I’m not talking about those of you who are Green Bay Packer fans in Wisconsin.

I’m not talking about people who wear hats shaped like cheese.  I’m talking about the cheese that is “in your head” (usually entering through your mouth, I hope).

Imagine…
What if you eliminated cheese from your diet for just one day?  That doesn’t sound too hard does it?  You may be surprised.

What you will probably find, if you are like most Americans, is that a large percentage of your calories come into your body as cheese.  There are cheese sauces, cheese on your burger, cheese on your salad, cheese on your eggs… nearly everything has cheese on it.

The bad news…
Unfortunately, cheese is primarily fat and fat has more calories per gram than carbohydrates and lots more than foods high in fiber.  So the cheese you eat is like “condensed, high calorie fat”.  You should consider, if you must eat cheese to switch to a cheese that is lower in fat, such as goat cheese.

The good news…
If you eliminate cheese from your diet for just one day, that means you can do it for the next day.  One day at a time…After a few more days, your taste buds will adapt and, guess what, you won’t miss it (as much).

The REALLY good news…
As an added bonus, by eliminating or greatly reducing the amount of cheese you put in your head, you will greatly reduced the number of calories you consume per day … which means less fat on your body!

Hey all you CheeseHeads out there….
Got a better idea for improving health?  We would love to hear it.  Leave a comment below and share it with the world.  If it is really good, it might even be included in the follow-up book featuring success stories by people who made their own “Small Decisions” and changed their lives.

Picture sourced from www.cheesehead.com, “Manufacturers of the Official Cheesehead (r) hat”.

 

Small Decision # 84 – Know Your Number

This is probably one of the simplest yet most effective “Small Decisions” of all of them in the book “Fat is all in your Head, 101 Small Decisions for Amazing Health”.

 

Small Decision # 84
Know Your Number

Read the calorie listing on everything you eat and keep a running tally of your daily calorie intake in your head. This will help you to lose weight

You will be surprised how many calories you are taking in, especially compared to most “diets” or food plans which target the 1500-2500 calories per day range.

What’s Your Number?
It is also good to have a rough calorie plan or target in your head for each day.  I estimate my food intake to the nearest 100 calories and depending on whether I’m trying to lose weight or maintain my weight, I shoot for either 1500 (losing) or 2500 (maintaining).

Training Numbers May Vary:
If you are training for some sort of endurance event and exercising more than 5 hours per week, be sure to set your target higher to compensate for the all calories you are burning.

While it can seem daunting at first, knowing the number of calories you are ingesting is one of the best ways to keep a close eye on what goes through your lips (and ends up on your hips)!  In the end it will all help you to lose weight.

What’s Your Story?
Would you like to be featured in the follow-up book to Fat is all in your Head?  It will include success stories from people who have applied the ideas in the book or come up with even better ones of their own.  What should we call it… “Revenge of FatHead”?  “FatHead Returns”?

Leave us a comment and tell us about your story !

Small Decision # 74 – Think Tasty Thoughts

Change the Taste of Food with Your MindHere is one of my favorite “Small Decisions” from “Fat is all in your Head, 101 Small Decisions for Amazing Health”.

Small Decision # 74
Think Tasty Thoughts

 After a long hot afternoon of mowing your lawn or working in a garden, a nice cold drink tastes incredibly good doesn’t it?

What if you could change the taste of food by the way you think about it?  You can.

Try this exercise that I learned from Tony Robbins:

Imagine you have a hot dog on a plate in front of you.  How appetizing is that hot dog on a scale of 1 to 10 where 1 is “Disgusting” and 10 is “I can’t wait to eat it”?  Let’s say the imaginary hot dog is a 5 for our example.

Now imagine how you might change the hot dog to increase its desirability.  Would you imagine that it is hand-made from organic ingredients?  Maybe it is extra long or super plump and covered in your favorite toppings.  Or you could think back to a wonderful cookout where you had a great time and the hot dog you ate there.

What would you rate your imagined hot dog now?  Maybe an 8 or 9?

Let’s go the other way and imagine how it could be less desirable.  Maybe the hot dog is cold and it has some odd blemishes on it.  Or someone tells you the company that made it recently had a health violation for putting something disgusting into their hot dogs.  How do you rate the imaginary hot dog now?  1?  2?

As you were doing this exercise, did you notice how you felt about the original hot dog?

The original hot dog did not change, but your desire for it certainly did.

In other words, you have the ability to make food taste better (or worse) based on how you imagine it.    You can also conquer the battle of weight loss forever! 

This can be a powerful tool when you want to eat more vegetables and fewer hot dogs!

Think about it!